Pick Up Lines You Can Use To Meet Hot Women
Do pick up lines actually work? When you think of a dude using pick up lines, you probably envision some slimy wanna-be ladies' man, his shirt unbuttoned to reveal a gold chain and a furry chest. As a Barry White song plays on the soundtrack, he prowls the bar for a woman desperate (or drunk) enough to accompany him back to his lair...
Then he spots his prey...he looks her up and down...and he uses a cheesy pick up line that causes her to groan (or throw her drink in his face).
I'm talking about pick up lines like these...
"I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away."
"Can I borrow a quarter? [What for?] I need to call my mother and tell her I've met the girl of my dreams."
"Do you have a map? I keep on getting lost in your eyes."
"Somebody better call God, cuz he's missing an angel. "Help me settle an argument I'm having with my friend over there?"
"Sorry lady, but you owe me a drink. [Why?] Because when I looked at you, I dropped mine."
"I'm new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?"
"If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together."
"Your legs must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night."
"If this bar is a meat market, you must be the prime rib."
"I was so mesmerized by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes."
Now, not all pick up lines are THAT cheesy. Now I want to share a few pick up lines that women will often find cute and flattering -- but only if you FOLLOW UP the right way, which I'll explain how to do in a minute.
"Wouldn't we look adorable on a wedding cake together?"
"Can you pull this heart-shaped arrow out of my back? A little kid with wings just shot me."
"What does it feel like to be the cutest girl in the room?"
"If a thousand painters worked for a thousand years, they could not create a work of art as amazing as you."
(Note: Don't use this pick up line on women who are extremely hot and KNOW it. This one is effective on a girl who is attractive, but is clearly NOT the best-looking girl in the place.)
And then, there's another category of pick up lines. I call these...
Pick Up Lines That Might Get You Kicked In The Groin
Use this last category of pick up lines with extreme caution. While they might get a good reaction (particularly if she's a drunken nymphomaniac), you're equally likely to get hit. (Particularly if she has a large boyfriend nearby.) Like I said, be careful...
"Do you know what has 142 teeth and holds back the Incredible Hulk? [What?] My zipper."
"That outfit would look great...in a crumpled heap next to my bed."
"That's a nice set of legs, what time do they open?"
So are pick up lines something to be mocked? Would any REAL pick up artist deign to use them? I have authored a few books on picking up girls, which teach many different resourceful approaches to starting conversations with girls. And personally, I think pick up lines are usually way too obvious.
I normally recommend that you use the "under the radar" style of opening conversations. This means you use a clever, unexpected comment or question to capture her interest and engage her in a conversation WITHOUT signalling that you're hoping to get her into bed. Essentially, you're "breaking the ice" in a way that feels natural and casual.
As an example, you might ask for her opinion on an unexpected topic -- one that women are typically going to have strong feelings about.
Example #1: "Quick question -- would you allow your boyfriend to go to a bachelor party if you knew there were going to be strippers there? Because my friend Jennifer is sort of freaking out about this right now."
Example #2: "Hey, help me settle a debate I'm having with my friends. How long do you need to be dating someone before you change your status on Facebook from "single" to "in a relationship?" Because my friend Jennifer has been going out with a guy for a month and SHE thinks it's an exclusive thing, but he hasn't changed his "single" status and she's wondering if she should say something..."
I like these openers because they're based on what I call "relationship grey areas." Men and women tend to have their own ideas about what's allowed in a relationship, and what is unacceptable. Another example: is it "cheating" if a guy hangs out with his ex-girlfriend socially, without telling his current girlfriend?
My point is, a good opener is going to make her WANT to respond. And if you're a confident, playful guy, this one always gets a fun reaction:
"Do I look gay? Because this dude was TOTALLY hitting on me in the men's room a minute ago. Be honest -- is it my shirt?" (Or, "is it the way my butt looks in these jeans?")
My book Mack Tactics contains dozens of other funny, powerful approaches that you can use with women. I wouldn't classify any of them as pick up lines. But does this mean pick up lines are, by definition, a bad thing?
The answer is no. I've actually used some of the pick up lines I mentioned above, and they led to a conversation and a successful result (either I got her phone number and saw her again, or slept with her that night).
It was effective because I made a JOKE about the fact that I'd used an obvious pick up line! After delivering it, I followed up with "I know that TOTALLY sounded like a pick up line...but I want to talk to you for a minute and I couldn't think of what else to say. My name's Dean..."
Then from that point, I used my usual techniques -- I asked a few "strategic" questions to get her in a fun mindset, and sharing information about herself...I used techniques like "Cold Reads" and "Hypotheticals"...and at all times, I stayed in control of the interaction and guided it down the correct path.
Sometimes the world's cheesiest pick up line can be a FUN way to start things off. It's all about knowing how to transition into the conversation, and never taking yourself too seriously.
And in a pinch, you can always use this one:
"You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pick up line."
You've gotta love that line. Women sure do...
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